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		<title>The memories I once had of Cuba</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2021 03:11:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I don't remember, now, how I used to imagine my family in Cuba.

Thoughts were hazy about my mother's family, especially on her father’s side. Yet, my mother’s simple stories – rich snapshots of growing up in Havana – helped me create my own visions of the people and places I had never known.]]></description>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>I don’t remember, now, how I used to imagine my family in Cuba.</p>
<p>Both of my parents were born in Havana, yet they passed on to me very different impressions about their lives and families in a Cuba of the early 1900s through the mid-1950s.</p>
<p>My father’s experiences seemed fairly clear to understand. He often spoke of feeling like an immigrant while growing up in Havana, and it was because his parents had journeyed to Cuba from the Galicia province of Spain, and then associated closely with the large Gallego community in their new land. It was easy for me to imagine the arrival of my father’s family to Havana, especially since I had visited my grandparents’ birth places several times in northwest Spain.</p>
<p>Thoughts about my mother’s family, however, were always hazy.</p>
<p>Her mother’s side of the family seemed to have been a long time in Cuba. My mother enjoyed being able to grandly pronounce the double last names of her Cuban-born maternal grandparents, and she could share some details and personal memories about the people within the large family whom she encountered most often.</p>
<p>Yet, my mother was missing any specifics beyond the generation of family she knew.</p>
<p>Details about her father’s side – and her paternal grandparents – were even fuzzier. My questions about this DeZaldo family were often answered by my mother’s wistful reveries of vague stories she had overheard, or of visiting relatives from elsewhere.</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p><span>My mother Adelita was the youngest cousin of her father&#8217;s DeZaldo family. </span></p>
<p><span>She didn&#8217;t remember distant relatives or the exciting travels and events from well before her time&#8230;</span></p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p><span>My mother had spent her early years living at the DeZaldo estate near Havana, and she loved to reminisce with tales formed by her favorite childhood memories. </span></p>
<p><span>But since she was the youngest cousin of her father&#8217;s DeZaldo family, my mother didn&#8217;t remember those people who visited from overseas or have details about the exciting travels and events from well before her time. </span></p>
<p><span>She would attempt to share some family information with me, but I sensed that my mother’s vague recollections were sketchy. She also had a propensity for coming up with stories and explanations that you knew were barely based on facts. Entertaining, yes, but my many questions about my mother’s extended family remained unanswered for years.</span></p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p><span>It&#8217;s mostly because of my mother&#8217;s stories – told with vivid enthusiasm and a touch of drama – that I’ve always imagined Cuba as elegant, strong-willed, earthy, and culturally diverse.</span></p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p><strong>Adelita De Zaldo y Moré</strong></p>
<p>Havana, circa 1951</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p><span>My mother, Adela De Zaldo y Moré, was a charming character – expressive and “simpática”. She was fun, and she left a pleasant impression on everyone she met.</span><span></span></p>
<p><span>And it is mostly because of her collection of stories – usually told with vivid enthusiasm and a touch of drama – that I’ve always imagined Cuba as elegant, strong-willed, earthy, and culturally diverse.</span><span></span></p>
<p><span>The stories she shared were simple – rich snapshots from her life growing up, without much analysis of cause and effect – and they were perfect for helping me to create my own visions of the people and </span><span>places</span><span> I had never known.</span><span></span></p>
<p><span>Now, I am imagining Cuba differently.</span><span></span></p>
<p><span>It’s an evolving view, one that keeps adapting to new details and my changed impressions. </span><span>Cuba now feels closer to me and so much more familiar.</span><span></span></p>
<p><span>And I keep noticing </span><span>that</span><span> I don’t quite remember how I pictured it all before – my distant family and the journeys of their lives.</span></p></div>
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		<title>Why is René De Zaldo on an Indian Motorcycle, 1915?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ay, Chica!]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2021 04:08:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[A single photograph prompted the start of my search online.

The photo was of my grandfather, René DeZaldo, standing by an old Indian motorcycle in race gear, 1915. That’s all I knew, so just imagine the questions I had... Was it taken in Cuba? Mexico? Or somewhere in the US?

So, in 2011, I just googled it.]]></description>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2>A single photograph prompted my online family search</h2>
<p>What first stirred my imagination was a black and white photograph.</p>
<p>It was a captivating image, but just one of many my brother had found in an old family photo album. He decided to digitize it, then put it in a frame and gave it to me as a birthday gift. This photograph sat in my dining room for years, and I noticed it often.</p>
<p>The photo was of my grandfather, René De Zaldo, standing by an old Indian motorcycle.</p>
<p>In that image, René is surrounded by a small group of bystanders and fitted in the race gear of motorcycling’s early days &#8211; circa 1915.</p>
<h2>I knew little about the photograph, and I had so many questions</h2>
<p>There were few clues to help me understand that image of my grandfather. And nothing was written on the back of the print. So, just imagine the questions I had.</p>
<p>What was the story of that scene?</p>
<p>How did René De Zaldo get started with motorcycles?</p>
<p>And was it really a race? Did he win?</p>
<h2>Who could I ask to learn more about my grandfather René?</h2>
<p>I tried asking my mother about the photograph. But by the time I really wanted to know more about my grandfather, my mother could hardly answer where her father René was born. I assumed he was born in Cuba. However, she would sometimes say her father was born in Mexico and, at other times, she would think it was in San Antonio, Texas.</p>
<p>Where, then, was that photograph taken? Was it in Cuba? Mexico? Or somewhere in the US?</p>
<p>There were few other people in my family I could ask to get real answers.</p>
<p>And I could not have asked my grandfather myself. I had only known him for about a year when I was six years old and circumstances had brought us together in Lisbon, Portugal. He passed away in Lisbon a few years later.</p>
<p>Still, I really wanted answers. And the lack of information about the photograph made it even more intriguing. That framed image of my grandfather and his Indian motorcycle kept calling to me&#8230;</p>
<p>So, in 2011, I googled “René De Zaldo”.</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>It took me a few years to find answers to my questions about my grandfather and that Indian motorcycle.</p>
<p>Along the way, however, my Google searches online started to uncovered more extraordinary stories than I ever could have imagined &#8211; about René, and about other near relatives I had never even heard of.</p>
<p>I’ve been lucky. My research has turned up hidden gems of family information. I keep looking, and I’m still digging up new details online.</p>
<h2>Finding lost family stories because I could just “Google it”</h2>
<p>When I started my Google research, I wasn’t really expecting to find much. Maybe I would learn some simple dates of major life events &#8211; like birth, marriage, or death.</p>
<p>As it turned out, I’ve discovered wonderful tales about my close and more distant family, with adventures occurring in world locations I had not considered before.</p>
<p>These particular events and stories were found documented in books, magazines, letters, and official records that were published across centuries and continents.</p>
<p>What made possible my thrilling success in family research? It’s all thanks to the advent, and continuing process, of digitization &#8211; and the ability to “Google” keywords and find digitized copies of printed information and images online.</p>
<h2>The DeZaldo y Moré family &#8211; so much more than I expected</h2>
<p>I had sensed that the DeZaldo y Moré stories would be fascinating, and it’s true &#8211; with René and the DeZaldo side of the family traveling often across the Atlantic, and the Moré family side well-established for centuries in Cuba.</p>
<p>But how would I have discovered it all before?</p>
<p>Now, here I am finding details, or new clues, about René’s motorcycle and so much more, just sitting at my laptop or searching from anywhere on my phone.</p>
<p>What will I discover today?</p></div>
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		<title>Remembering my mother, Adelita, and her gifts to me from Cuba</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ay, Chica!]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Jul 2021 04:57:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In remembering my mother on the anniversary of her passing, I think of the happy memories she shared from her childhood in Havana. 

Surviving photos show that she was trouble: cute, exuberant, and wriggling with charm.]]></description>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>One of the cutest memories my mother gave me from her childhood in Cuba was of her, age 4 or 5, in the kitchen of their Vedado home reading out loud.</p>
<p>Little Adelita would sometimes sit on a counter with a book in hand, reading in English to ‘las criadas’ or the maids.</p>
<p>My mother would smile as she told this story because at age 4 or 5 she could neither read, nor speak English very well.</p>
<p>I can just picture my mother as a petite girl, often with a big bow on her tiny blond head, speaking with confidence and sitting upright and proud. She’s convinced that ‘las criadas’ are falling for her charade.</p>
<p>Since birth, she’s heard enough American English to pronounce some real words and to deliver the sounds and distinct cadence that to her young ears should pass as the perfect fake ‘ingles’.</p>
<p>Of course, my mother would give a sample of her fake English each time she described<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>that scene.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span>So funny &#8211; it did sound American.</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>Little Adelita. In so many early photos, she&#8217;s wearing a big bow on her tiny blond head. Havana, circa 1934.</p>
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<p>Like an actress honing her craft, Adelita would apparently stop by the kitchen often to put on a grand performance of some kind while dinner was being prepared around her.</p>
<p>The maids, one of whom would have had to help perch her up on the kitchen counter, must have been somewhat entertained by little Adelita’s constant theatrics and bursts of energy around the house.</p></div>
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<p>I know few details about that house in the Vedado neighborhood of Havana where those events took place, or even about the people who would have passed through there.</p>
<p>But not long ago I discovered photos of my mother from that era, and you can tell that she was trouble, in an exuberant kind of way.</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>Adelita and Elenita de Zaldo y Moré, posing on their balcony. Havana, circa 1934.</p>
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<p>My mother’s older sister, Elenita, often in those same photos, might not have always considered Adelita so cute. My aunt Elenita was more reserved and elegant, and certainly more thoughtful and patient than my mother. And you get the impression from those pictures that little Adelita &#8211; or Chiqui, as the family called her &#8211; probably both entertained and exasperated her.</p>
<p>“Ay, Chiqui!,” I could hear Elenita say.</p>
<p>Chiqui would have been the one running through the house on an adventure, or making some insistent and vocal demand. Her personality seems to wriggle out from those wonderful black and white images that survive.</p></div>
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<p>Thinking back to my childhood, I can relate to some of those demanding antics as a little girl &#8211; yes, you can call them bratty.</p>
<p>And my own two sons definitely inherited some of those more exuberant Chiqui traits &#8211; like always coming up with busy adventures in and around the house, or putting on performances in person or in front of a camera. Those more assertive parts of our personalities &#8211; mine and of my sons &#8211; I know came from my mother, and the thought makes me smile.</p></div>
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<p>As I grew up, far from Havana and any Cuban family, my mother’s vivid stories about her childhood would bring her memories to life. She rarely offered many details, just enough color, flavor, and sounds to take me back to those times.</p>
<p>Like her stories about the street vendors passing near her home &#8211; the “pregoneros” selling fruits and vegetables or candies in 1930s Havana.</p></div>
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<p>To describe the tamales vendor, my mother would mimic his call to customers as he walked down the street, shouting out, “Pican… y no pican…. los tamales!” She’d love performing his cry, accentuating the Cuban pause between words and a strong staccato on the first syllables.</p>
<p>Even my sons remember hearing that story from my mother, and they can now perform the tamales vendor’s exact call with perfect rhythm, timing, and distinct Cuban flair.</p>
<p>Another great memory I loved to hear was about the times her Tio Alberto would sneak out with my mother and her sister &#8211; when they were a bit older and bedtime was still so early &#8211; to go get “fritas y batidos”, or Cuban-style burgers and milk shakes.</p>
<p>Tio Alberto would knock on the sisters’ bedroom window from the big wrap around porch, and off they’d go to enjoy an extended evening out in downtown Havana.</p>
<p>I don’k think my grandparents, or anyone else who lived in that house, would have been upset about those adventures with Tio Alberto.</p>
<p>It was a large family with many regular visitors, and my mother spoke often of small gatherings at the house, or out on the spacious front porch. From those stories and others I have heard, it seemed important at that home to find ways to enjoy life with family and friends, in spite of the challenges that were always present in day-to-day Cuba.</p></div>
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<p>I’ve never been to Cuba &#8211; but those special memories my mother shared of her native land are now my memories.</p>
<p>With her stories she painted for me more of the happy moments from her childhood in Cuba. That era in Havana as a young girl were remembered from her singular perspective &#8211; as the littlest in a family that seemed in a constant whir of activities, characters, and events.</p>
<p>And if there were unhappy memories from my mother&#8217;s life in Havana through the 1930s, 40s and 50s &#8211; and I’m sure there were &#8211; she rarely spoke of them.</p>
<p>What’s the point in remembering such things? I believe avoiding less pleasant thoughts is a perspective she inherited from her father, my grandfather René De Zaldo y Parra, and I am grateful for that.</p>
<p>Ay, Chiqui.</p>
<p><span>On this day, the anniversary of her passing in 2014, I remember my mother’s exuberant spirit, her vivid stories, and her love. Each year I realize more how essential she was to making my world a happier place.</span></p>
<p><span>Adelita de Zaldo y Moré, during her 84 years, made an impression on many people with her warmth and incomparable style. And we still smile when we think back to those charmed little moments we got to experience with Adelita in life.</span></p></div>
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